so my friend entered into a deep relationship with a married man. Over years supposedly his wife was more ok with it. I held back my judgment, yet it remains.

Recently they had a celebration together.. friend and man. The wife who is in another group where I am also a part, had a party for the husband. I made a mistake when talking about not being able to go.

Now everyone is MAD> At me. I should have known to nto let the wife know that I know about this partnering.. my friend and this man are openly in groups for years to gether. The wife supposedly had her own part of the house built.. but they are mad at me. Ok I am venting.

I dotn get this stuff and here is why in one way. Personally I think they are targetting me when the reality is that there are unresolved issues about who is with whom and when.. and the marriage issue. But my insight does not matter. They are mad.